My wife often chooses bedtime as the time for negotiation on the issues we disagree, deprives me of my pleasure (e.g., sexual intercourse). What should I do?
Question
The question text was not published separately; the title stands in for it.
My wife often chooses bedtime as the time for negotiation on the issues we disagree, deprives me of my pleasure (e.g., sexual intercourse). What should I do?
Answer
We suggest you use a very loving and caring attitude to your wife. Thereafter, with lot of wisdom and diplomacy you address the issue with her and let her know of your displeasure of her actions.
This will create a stronger bond and relationship between you and your wife. Do not adopt an aggressive attitude, hence, resulting in your marriage becoming a misery.
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
for: Mufti Ebrahim Desai
FATWA DEPT.
CHECKED AND APPROVED: Moulana Imraan Vawda
- Answered by
- for: Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Fatawa SA is an independent, read-only index of fatawa already published by Darul Iftaa Mahmudiyyah (AskImam). It is not a fatwa service. For your own situation, ask the issuing Darul Ifta directly.