Please advise me what I should do as I am geting married next yr.How should I prepare myself for wedding nite and what is expected of me on that nite.

Q: What is the Du'aa to be recited when the husband and wife meet for the first time?
A: When the husband approaches his wife for the first time after marriage, he should place his hands on her forelock and recite the following Du'aa: Transliteration: Allaahumma Inniy As-aluka min khayrihaa wa khayr maa jabaltahaa alayhi wa 'a-oodhu bika min sharrihaa wa sharri maa jabaltahaa (Trans: O Allah, I seek of You her goodness and the good of the nature upon which You created her; and I beg Your protection from her mischievous nature upon which You created her). (Hisnul Haseen)

Refer below - ettiqutte of lovemaking.

and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai
FATWA DEPT.
Du'aa before commencing intercourse:
Allaahumma Jannibnaa minas shaytaani wa jannibihs shaytaana maa razaqtanaa (Trans: O Allah! Save us from Shaytaan and prevent Shaytaan from that which you have gran child)

Du'aa to be recited at the time of ejaculation (in the mind, not verbally): Allaahumma Laa Taj-al lish-shaytaana fee maa razaqtanaa
(Trans: O Allah, do not grant Shaytaan any share from that which you have granted me)

· Make intention to maintain chastity
· Perform Wudhu, use the Miswaak, apply Itr, etc.
· Foreplay. The partners should arouse each another sufficiently before indulging in the actual act.
· Recite the respective Du'aas in their respective times
· After play. After ejaculation the male should not withdraw until his wife achieves climax and satisfaction.
· Attain purity by having a bath as soon as possible after intercourse. If one wishes to sleep then, he/she should at least wash his/her private part and make Wudhu before sleeping.
· Complete nudity should be avoided. Both partners should undress under a sheet and at least keep that over them throughout the intercourse. · One should refrain from facing the Qiblah during intercourse. · Intercourse should be refrained from: a) On a full stomach, b) Whilst curbing the urge to urinate or defecate, and c) When one of the partners is ill, especially during fever and when the eyes are sore.