Marriage · Subtopic

Intimacy & Marital Relations

703 fatawa from 6 South African Darul Iftas on Intimacy & Marital Relations, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.

Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.

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Intimacy & Marital Relations fatawa — page 4 of 18

  1. Mufti Online26 Feb 2019

    Inclination towards homosexuality

    I have contacted many doctors. I am like a girl, my body, chest, etc. My feelings are also like a woman. I know that this is not allowed in Islam…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  2. Ask Imaam12 Feb 2019

    “I am ending this relationship”, is it considered three talaqs?

    Is it considered as three Talaaqs? My son-in-law emailed me with this message: "I realized that u all have No courage to face the truth and i m no…

    Tareque Ahmed
  3. Ask Imaam11 Feb 2019

    Guidelines to Intimate Relations

    Assalamualaikum, I had a few questions that I wanted to be answered. May Allah bless you brothers and help you with this great effort you guys are…

    Muhammad I.V Patel
  4. Ask Imaam10 Feb 2019

    Intimate Marital Questions

    Assalmualikum Hope you are in good health I have 2 questions regarding intimacy which i feel like i cannot ask my local imam out of modesty and…

    Muhammad I.V Patel
  5. Mufti Online7 Feb 2019

    Spouses having intercourse without clothes

    Can husband and wife have sex without clothes (fully naked)?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  6. Mufti Online6 Feb 2019

    Intimacy with one's wife in front of mirrors

    My bedroom has big mirrors on the walls and cupboards. Is it permissible to have intimacy with my wife in front of the mirrors?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  7. Mufti Online26 Jan 2019

    When is sexual relations with one's wife prohibited?

    Are there any specific days or time of the day where sex is disliked between husband and wife except menstruation days? Few people say eclipse time…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  8. Ask Imaam25 Jan 2019

    Can the husband use intimate toys to satisfy his wife?

    Assalam u alikum, I apologize for asking this question first, but I am in a dire situation. I have read your fatwa #34234 on the use of sex toys and…

    Muhammad I.V Patel
  9. Mufti Online21 Jan 2019

    Lineage of a child whose mother is involved in an illicit relationship

    I am married and by mistake had an affair with a guy. Now I am pregnant and that guy forces me to continue the relationship otherwise he will claim…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  10. Mufti Online21 Jan 2019

    Homosexual thoughts

    Will I be called homosexual if I only have thoughts of homosexuality but I am a normal man. I will never go close to it insha Allah. I hate it tooo…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  11. Ask Imaam16 Jan 2019

    Boundaries of intimacy with ones spouse

    السلام عليكم If husband and wife finger which other in anus while forplaying allowed or not . 2) And if husband orders her wife to mastarbute her…

    Muhammad I.V Patel
  12. Mufti Online16 Jan 2019

    Kissing another man

    Man kissed another man with lust. How to repent from it? Whats the condition for repentance.

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  13. Mufti Online14 Jan 2019

    Husband using unnatural ways to satisfy his wife

    When a husband has intercourse with his wife and he ejaculated but his wife doesn’t get an orgasm yet. Is it permissible for the husband to use a…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  14. Ask Imaam13 Jan 2019

    Can the husband use intimate toys to pleasure his wife?

    Is the use of sex toys during intercourse allowed in Islam? As salaam alaikum, After the bitrh of my son (which was a very complicated delivery that…

    Muhammad I.V Patel
  15. Mufti Online23 Dec 2018

    Sex toys

    May I ask why Muslims have become interested in things like 'sex toys' in marriage? It seems all very strange and weird. What is the cause of this…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  16. Mufti Online22 Dec 2018

    Intimacy before walimah

    Is it compulsory to have sex on wedding night with your wife to make walima halaal the next day?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  17. Mufti Online19 Dec 2018

    Seeing a boy's private part with lust

    If a woman see's a boy's penis which is not erected and the woman has lust and the boy does not have lust. Can the boy marry her daughter?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  18. Mufti Online19 Dec 2018

    Husband unable to satisfy his wife

    My husband cant satisfy me in sex. He did many things to satisfy me but failed. Can I do self sex with my hand and insert anything in my vagina to…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  19. Mufti Online18 Dec 2018

    Husband touching the wife in haidh

    I am aware that when a woman is on her periods the area from her belly button to her knees must be covered. But if a woman on her periods is wearing…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  20. Mufti Online16 Dec 2018

    Wife masturbating her husband

    Is it allowed to make your husband ejaculate by rubbing his private parts? I usually hold the private part in my hand and husband then holds my hand…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  21. Mufti Online6 Dec 2018

    Making one's wife reach orgasm while she is in haidh

    I just needed to find out if it's ok in Shariah for my husband to make me reach orgasm during my haidh. He is able to do this while the satr area is…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  22. Ask Imaam4 Dec 2018

    Marriage valid without intimacy

    After Akd/Akth how long is this marriage ok,even without sexual intimacy between husband & wife?The marriage function/programme has not been done yet.

    Muajul I. Chowdhury
  23. Mufti Online20 Nov 2018

    Using sex toys

    I have some doubts about some sex toys. My wife loves foreplay and for that I bought a love egg vibrator (internal) and a g spot vibrator (partially…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  24. Mufti Online14 Nov 2018

    Fear of conceiving another child

    My wife delivered a child 2.5 months ago. Her period has not started yet. We had sex last night but we cant take any precautions like using condom,…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  25. Mufti Online3 Nov 2018

    Relationship between spouses

    How should a wife's relationship be with her husband? To what extent should she love and respect her husband? I have read somewhere that a man and…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  26. Ask Imaam16 Oct 2018

    A wife’s right to intimate relations and impotency

    I wanted to how many times is it obligatory on man to have sex with his wife.. Like once a year or a month or 4 months etc please let me know what…

    Faizal Dhada
  27. Mufti Online16 Oct 2018

    Is it necessary for a girl to bleed on her wedding night?

    I want to ask about the hymen in Islam. Is it necessary for a girl to bleed on her wedding night?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  28. Mufti Online15 Oct 2018

    Will not being intimate with one's wife affect the nikaah?

    If a husband wife don't have sex for 5-6 months or more after their child was born, will it affect their nikaah in any way? They eat and sleep…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  29. Mufti Online15 Oct 2018

    Reading masaail regarding intimacy for sensual satisfaction

    What is the ruling for people who read sexual Islamic masail for the sake of nafs desire of reading such content?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  30. Mufti Online29 Sep 2018

    Husband inserting his finger in his wife's private part

    I am a married man. How close can I be with my wife according to shariah? I have seen/read that we can touch the g spot of a woman by entering…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  31. Mufti Online25 Sep 2018

    Husband not fulfilling the wife's desires

    I have been married for seven and half years now. I have a child, a son, 6 years of age. I want another child but my husband doesn't seem to be…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  32. Mufti Online18 Sep 2018

    Engaging in phone sex with one's wife

    My nikkah has been done and rukhsati is pending. Can I have phone sex with my wife as I am far away from her and cannot control myself instead of…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  33. Mufti Online12 Sep 2018

    Husband wants divorce after finding out about wife's past relationship

    Girl had a relationship in past and now she got married and she is true to her husband but her husband came to know of her past relationship and he…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  34. Mufti Online12 Sep 2018

    Sexual relations while one's wife is in the state of haidh

    What are the sexual restrictions during a woman's periods? Can one touch the private parts with a cloth on them or the area between the naval and…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  35. Mufti Online11 Sep 2018

    Semen retention

    Is semen retention (meaning after going to wife and not releasing semen) permissible? This is a meditative art to control the mind and body. I want…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  36. Mufti Online18 Jul 2018

    Intimacy between spouses

    I was looking for a kitaab on sexual relations like what is permissible and what is not but I haven't been able to find clarity on the following: 1)…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  37. Mufti Online17 Jul 2018

    Husband having intercourse with both his wives at the same time

    Can a man have intercourse with two of his wife's at the same time if they agree and they are blind folded?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  38. Mufti Online10 Jul 2018

    Sexual relations

    Is it allowed in Islam for husband to rub or put his penis inside wife's breasts?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  39. Mufti Online1 Jul 2018

    Status of nikaah if a couple are not intimate for many years

    I am married for 29 years with 5 children. All are grown up now. 15 years ago my husband stopped sleeping with me and stopped all activities of…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  40. Ask Imaam12 May 2018

    Intimate creams and sprays to enhance one’s sexual ability.

    I am pakistan national and working in oman muscat... here we are using local water for bathing... in that water there are some chemicals due to…

    Muhammad I.V Patel

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