Marriage · Subtopic
Marital Problems & Counselling
382 fatawa from 4 South African Darul Iftas on Marital Problems & Counselling, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Marital Problems & Counselling fatawa — page 9 of 10
- Mufti Online13 Dec 2014
Not delaying in making nikaah
My mother liked a girl for me for marriage and did istikhara but it was negative. But before doing istikhara they exchanged pictures. So now I like…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online10 Dec 2014
Treating one's wives with respect and consideration
My parents are married alhamdulillah and my dad did a second marriage. It's been 2 years. He wants to keep both of his wives together in one home…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online10 Dec 2014
Changing one's religion for marriage purposes
I want to marry a girl from a non-muslim (qadiani) family. She has accepted Islam and my parents agreed with me. The problem is that her parents who…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Dec 2014
Getting married
I feel I am ready for marriage however I do not know how to tell my parents I fear having a haraam relationship.
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Jamiat KZN2 Dec 2014
Time of Walimah
Should a Walimah be done before or after the consummation of a Nikah?
Mufti Ismaeel Bassa - Jamiat KZN27 Nov 2014
Pre-Marital Relations
Assalamu’alaikum i wanna ask that : if a girl and a boy did sex and then they want marry together, is their nikah will be valid after their sex done…
Mufti Ismaeel Bassa - Mufti Online18 Nov 2014
Husband downloading porn
My husband downloads porn and explicit videos on the phone and ipad. I hate it and I am very unhappy. I feel insufficient and not good enough for him.
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online9 Nov 2014
Providing a separate kitchen and dwelling for the wife
What are the rights of mother and wife? I have been married for 6 years with two kids and my wife has problems with my mothers hold on the kitchen.…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online3 Nov 2014
Husbands children
This is my second marriage. Is it permissible that my daughter and my husband's son live in the same house? Is it permissible that my husband speak…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online28 Oct 2014
Husband not wishing to issue a divorce
I have a very unusual question. I am married and alhumdullilah I am blessed with 2 sons. A few years ago my dad passed away in an accident and my…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Ask Imaam20 Oct 2014
Marital problems
Do I have to financially support her personally? - Both myself and my wife have lived with our in-laws throughout our marriage because of financial…
Arshad Ali - Ask Imaam4 Oct 2014
Marriage dispute
When we first got married. my husband was a kind and gentle man but after several months, he became a different person. Not wanting me to be out…
Fahad Abdul Wahab - Mufti Online2 Oct 2014
Husband not understanding Deen
I feel as if my husband is too strict with me. Before he wasn't like this when we got married but now he stops me from a lot of things. I've never…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Sep 2014
Becoming infected by one's husband
I got a sexual infection. I went to the doctor, the doctor said it was only sexually transmitted disease. I was infected by my husband but from…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Jamiat KZN22 Aug 2014
Failing to give Mahr at the Nikah
A Nikah was performed but the Mahr was not given. Is the Nikah valid?
Mufti Suhail Tarmahomed - Mufti Online14 Aug 2014
Taking a second wife
I want to find out, a friend of mine wants to take a second wife. He has kids from his 1st wife. He doesn't love her and they hardly communicate. He…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online12 Aug 2014
Getting married to an acquaintance from school
I plan on making nikaah next weekend and need to know if its allowed. This man and I have known each other since school but I married another. That…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online15 May 2014
Consent of the parents in nikaah
I want to marry a sister but some problems have cropped up for which I would need your guidance in the light of Quran and Hadith. I am 27 (an…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online15 May 2014
Chatting to a na mahram on whatsapp
I want know is it fair towards a woman if her husband has a lady friend which he has more time for. He wattsapp or sms's her at night and when I ask…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 May 2014
Getting married without the consent of one's parents
My parents don't want me to get married but I am interested in some one and we want to make nikaah as soon as possible, but my parents won't allow…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online6 May 2014
Wife speaking on the phone to the husbands brother
Is it permissible for a wife to have a telephonic conversation with her husband's brother in the husband's absence while the husband is not happy…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Apr 2014
Husband not prepared to issue a divorce
My husband is an alcoholic and separated from the past four years. He is not willing to give Talaaq nor accept Khula. We approached many ulema,…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online30 Apr 2014
Divorcing one's wife due to loving another woman
My cousin is married for 2 years. Before this he wanted to marry another woman but he never really asked her directly. He cares a lot for his wife…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Apr 2014
Getting a divorce from a husband who is on drugs
I have been married with nikah for 12 years. In the past 2 years my husband has joined bad friends and has lost his shop, car and all his money to…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online1 Mar 2014
Husband has no intention of divorce or khula'
I am from Pakistan. I need ur advice. If husband has no intension to give divorce or khula in court then what should a girl do? She can't wait her…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online26 Feb 2014
Verbal Abuse in Marriage
I have been married since the last four years. It's an arranged marriage. My husband is very abusive, physically and verbally and would always…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN26 Feb 2014
Can nikah be performed over skype?
Can nikah be performed over skype?
Nabeel Valli - Mufti Online24 Feb 2014
Marriage problems
I have problems in my marriage also in my brothers marriage. Please give me some dua for a happy married life.
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online24 Feb 2014
Leaving one's wife and breaking of relations with one's children
Can a man start over and walk away from his children of his previous marriage without having anything to do with them in future? Can he completely…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online26 Jan 2014
Wife telling the husband to leave the home
Firstly I would like to thank you for providing the ummah with a great service Alhamdulilah. My question is marriage related. I am a male married…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online14 Jan 2014
Girls parents not happy to get their daughter married
I want to marry a girl and she also wants to marry me. We both boy and girl agree, my parents and family also agree but the girl's parents and…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online14 Jan 2014
Making istikhara to see if one married the wrong person
Can I read istikhara namaaz to see if I married the wrong person? I did read istikhara before I got married over a year ago, but I am beginning to…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online23 Nov 2013
Fask (Cancellation) of the marriage
I have been married since 2008. During my first year of marriage, my husband hit me, swore me, smashed the wind-screen of my car and used drugs. I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Nov 2013
Commitment to the nikaah
Their is a friend of mine who wants to marry a girl but he is not able to decide as the girl has told him that she was in relation with a boy in…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online29 Oct 2013
Husband communicating with another women
My husband is talking to another woman. I have seen his messages on his phone and it makes me very uncomfortable. He goes to see her and talks to…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online24 Sep 2013
Husband using the the wife's money for his own needs
I pray you can help I'm desperate for some direction. Me and my husband both work. I earn more than him. His family lives in another country. His…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Sep 2013
Husband not fulfilling the needs of the wife
I want to clear my confusion about certain issues of my married life. I have recently married. Before my marriage I was doing a graceful job. The…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online18 Sep 2013
Dua for one's husband to listen to her only
What dua can I read for my husband and my baby listen to me only.
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online10 Sep 2013
Husband and wife not being intimate for two years
I want to know the validity of marriage if the husband and wife didn't have intercourse for 2 years. The husband is unable to do it with his wife.…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online31 Aug 2013
Husband cheating on wife
If a husband cheats on his wife and has illegal relationships with other girls what should a wife do?
Mufti Zakaria Makada
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