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Walimah & Wedding Customs

686 fatawa from 8 South African Darul Iftas on Walimah & Wedding Customs, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.

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Walimah & Wedding Customs fatawa — page 3 of 18

  1. Mufti Online15 Sep 2020

    Fulfilling the rights of one's wife after a secret nikaah

    A grown-up man has the financial ability to maintain his wife and family and he is eager to marry. But his parents want him to marry later after…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  2. Mufti Online5 Sep 2020Roman Urdu

    Kisi mahram ke bare me bure khiyalaat aate ho

    Hume kisi mahram ke bare me bure khiyalaat aate ho. Hum khud se nahi laate, naturally aate he aur control karne ki bohot koshish ki ho nahi hote ho.…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  3. Mufti Online5 Sep 2020Roman Urdu

    Mahr ko maaf karne se gawaah hona

    Kiya biwi khushi se ghair muajjal haqq-e-mahr maaf kar sakde to uske liye koi gawah to nahi chahiye hota? Muajjal haqq-e-mahr ada hochuka he.

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  4. Mufti Online29 Aug 2020Roman Urdu

    Khaawind ko doosre nikaah karne ke liye pehli biwi ki ijaazat lena

    Mery 5 bache he aur mere husband ne ab aa ke doosra nikah kar liya he. Wo bhi meri ijazat ke bina. Aur jis se nikah kiya he wo bhi pehle se married…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  5. Mufti Online8 Jun 2020

    Time limit for walimah

    Please advise whether there is a time limit when a walima needs to be held after a Nikaah. My brother is making Nikaah and was advised that his…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  6. Ask Imaam4 Mar 2020

    Is it permissible to attend a wedding of a close relative if it is a mixed gathering?

    Asalamualaikum I was wondering if it is permissible to attend a wedding of a close relative if it is a mixed gathering where there will be music,…

    Ahmad Patel
  7. Mufti Online28 Jan 2020

    Waleemah before sexual relations

    1. Is it mandatory to have sex before walima? Many say walima is not halaal and first nights usually are not like what we see in movies as many…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  8. Ask Imaam12 Jan 2020

    My elder brother paid the expenses of my wedding, now he wants repayment

    Assalamoalekum, In 2014 I got married and my elder brother financially supported me. Because my father wasn't able to support during that time as he…

    Hasan Ahmed Razzak
  9. Mufti Online13 Nov 2019

    Islamic ruling on dating

    What is the Islamic ruling on dating? Will there be any difference in the ruling if the boy and girl are engaged and intend to get married in the…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  10. Mufti Online9 Oct 2019Roman Urdu

    Iddat poori hone se pehle nikaah karna

    Meri aik dost ne apni zindagi bohat mess up ker li he... please guide kare. Huwa kuch yu ke aaj se 12 saal pehle uss ne ghar walo se chup ke kisi…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  11. Ask Imaam7 Oct 2019

    Is attending a wedding ceremony permissible?

    Assalamalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh . 1.I want to know whether it is permissible to attend a girl’s or a boy’s nikah ceremony where there is…

    Ahmad Patel
  12. Mufti Online26 Sep 2019Roman Urdu

    Behnoi se nikaah

    Meri dost ke behnoi ne apni biwi ko talaq di aur phir meri dost se nikah kar liya. Ek month bad ghar walo ko pata laga to unho ne usse dost ko talaq…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  13. Mufti Online26 Sep 2019

    Waleemah and secret nikaahs

    1. I have been in a secret nikaah for 10 years. As such, we didnt do walima. My immediate family now know about my nikaah. Is it possible to do a…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  14. Mufti Online25 Sep 2019Roman Urdu

    Jis ke saath zina kiya, us se nikaah karna

    Kiya me us larki se nikah kar sakta hu jis ke saath zina kiya ho? Kiya me us ke saath halaal rishta kar sakta hu? Kiya meri taubah qubool hogi?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  15. Mufti Online18 Sep 2019Roman Urdu

    Molvi ke beghair gawaaho ke saamne nikaah karna

    Agar beghair molvi ya nikaah khwan ke ijaab o qabool ho jaye aur haq-e-mahar bhi ada kar diya jaye aur gawah bhi moujood ho to kiya nikaah ho jata…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  16. Mufti Online16 Sep 2019

    Concealing one's marriage

    If a woman gets divorced, keeps it a secret, and then gets married again secretly. Her second marriage is done without her guardian but in the…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  17. Mufti Online12 Sep 2019

    Secret marriage

    I would like to know if I could talk to a non mahram for the purpose of a secret marriage as my first wife will not agree to my 2nd marriage and is…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  18. Mufti Online11 Sep 2019Roman Urdu

    Razaai behen se nikaah

    Mene apni khala ka doodh 6 mahine ke umar me pi li thi. Humari ammi ne bataya hume. Mujhe unki beti se nikah karna he, koi hal he to bataye.

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  19. Mufti Online10 Sep 2019Roman Urdu

    Nikaah me larki khud ijaab o qabool karna

    Agar nikah ke mouke pe larki khud ijaab o qabool karna chahti he qazi sahab ke poochne pe gawaho ke saamne parde me ek hi jagah beth ke jo ke India…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  20. Mufti Online5 Sep 2019Roman Urdu

    Biwi ke najaaiz ta'alluq se nikaah baaqi rehta he

    Agar koi khawateen shadi ke bad najaaiz ta'alluq me mulawwaz ho jaye aur taubah bhi kar le to is halat me uska apne shohar se rishta baaqi rehta he…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  21. Mufti Online3 Sep 2019Roman Urdu

    Shohar doosri mulk me mar jaye to kiya nikaah khatam hoti he?

    Me sunni hu. Ek larki ki nikah ek larka se huwa ghar wala ke raza mandi se aur 4 sal me 2 bache bhi huwe. Phir is aurat ka shohar kaam ke silsile se…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  22. Mufti Online2 Sep 2019

    Losing one's wedding ring

    I am a married Muslim woman. I have lost my ring which I got as a gift on my nikaah from my husband just like an engagement ring for which I am very…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  23. Mufti Online27 Aug 2019Roman Urdu

    Mahr kis ki zimme daari he?

    Meri shaadi ko eight years hogaye he aur 3 bache he. Mera mehr mere susar jo mere chacha bhi he unho ne mera mehr lakh rupees mehr tay kiya tha…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  24. Mufti Online20 Aug 2019Roman Urdu

    Mazaaq me nikaah karna

    Meri ek dost ne dosto ke saath beth kar mazaaq me qabool he kaha aur larki ne bhi kaha. Phir yaad nahi ke 3 baar bola tha ke nahi. Na haq mahar tha…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  25. Mufti Online19 Aug 2019Roman Urdu

    Zina ke khowf se nikaah fardh ho jaana

    Me intehai ziyada Islam pe parband to nhi hu lekn koshish karta hu jitna ho sake Islami taleemat par amal kar sako. Mujhe baligh huwe taqreeban 8…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  26. Mufti Online30 Jul 2019Roman Urdu

    Wali ke be ghair nikaah karna

    Kiya larki ka wali ke be ghair nikaah ho sakta he? Jab ke larki ka walid us nikaah ko nahi maanta aur larki ne khud se 22 saal bare aadmi se nikaah…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  27. Mufti Online30 Jul 2019Roman Urdu

    Nikaah karne ki zaroorat

    Me bohot pareshan hu meri madad kare. Ghar wale meri shaadi nahi karte he aur na hi mujhe roza rakhne dete he jisse meri shehwat had se ziyada bari…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  28. Mufti Online29 Jul 2019Roman Urdu

    Nikaah me larki ki ijaazat

    Kiya nikaah ke waqt larki qabool ki jaga ijazat he bol sakti he agar is se pocha he yun jaye ke aap ki ijazat he? Is se nikaah pe to koyi farq nahi…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  29. Mufti Online24 Jun 2019Urdu

    Nikaah ke mehfil me mahr ka ta'ayyun na huwa to kiya nikaah saheeh he?

    اگر ایک آدمی کا زبانی نکاح ہو اور پوری محفل گواہ ہو اور مہر کا تعین نہ ہوا ہو تو ان کے درمیان اگر ازواجی تعلقات قائم ہو جائے اور بعد ازں مہر کا تعین…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  30. Mufti Online24 Jun 2019

    Performing nikaah between the two Eids

    Some people say that nikah should not be performed in between the months of the two eids, i.e. the months between eid ul fiter and eid ul adha. Is…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  31. Mufti Online22 Jun 2019Roman Urdu

    Khala apne bhanje se nikaah karna

    Meri Abu ke mamu ke bete se meri bari behn ki shadi huwi he. Ab un ke bacho se mera double rishta huwa, ek khala ka or doora cousin bhi. To kiya un…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  32. Mufti Online19 Jun 2019Roman Urdu

    Bila gawaah ka nikaah

    Kia larka larki khud nikaah kar sakte he agar zina hone ka khatra ho to, bagair gawah or wali ke, or bad me ghar wale nikaah karwa de jab ke nikaah…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  33. Mufti Online18 Jun 2019Roman Urdu

    Nikaah ke bad ruhksati lena

    Meri biwi ki abhi rukhsati nahi huwi he mere sath lekin woh bohat israr kar rahi he keh ya to apne sath Saudi Arab le jao warna rukhsati nahi…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  34. Mufti Online12 Jun 2019

    Attending an engagement party

    1. What is the ruling on doing an engagement party? Is it permissible in Islam? 2. Is it permissible to attend an engagement party if there is no…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  35. Mufti Online9 Apr 2019

    Delaying Nikaah

    My father died just one month before my marriage date I want to postpone the marriage, so for how long can I postpone the marriage?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  36. Mufti Online6 Apr 2019

    Exchanging of gifts on the occasion of nikaah

    I heard from the honorable Ulama a hadith regarding nikah. Nabi Muhammad (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said: أعظم النكاح بركةً أيسره مؤنةً The most blessed…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  37. Mufti Online2 Apr 2019

    Attending a mixed gathering wedding

    Can I attend my sister's wedding where there is a mixed gathering of small amounts of people but no music?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  38. Mufti Online31 Mar 2019Roman Urdu

    Mahram ka ma'na

    Aurat ke liye na mahram kon hoti he? Aur un se parde ka kiya hukm he?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  39. Mufti Online27 Mar 2019Roman Urdu

    Jaanwar ke saat ghair fitri amal karne se nikaah tootta he?

    Agar aurat jaanwar ke sath sex kare gi to kiya nikaah toot jayega?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  40. Mufti Online24 Mar 2019

    Not attending a mixed gathering wedding

    Is my view point good or extremists? I never ask about what the bride to be will wear on her wedding day as here she wears fancy clothes infront of…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee

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