Social, Media & Ethics · Subtopic

Friendship & Gender Interaction

263 fatawa from 7 South African Darul Iftas on Friendship & Gender Interaction, part of Social, Media & Ethics. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.

Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.

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Ask Imaam186Mufti Online71Ibn Masood2MUBZ1Camperdown1Azaadville1Jamiat KZN1

Friendship & Gender Interaction fatawa — page 3 of 7

  1. Ask Imaam17 Apr 2015

    Since in Islam there is no concept of boyfriends so what should a girl do who had a boyfriend and also had physical relation with him?

    i want to know that since in islam there is no concept of boyfriends so what should a girl do who had a boyfriend and also had physical relation…

    Zakariya Memon
  2. Ask Imaam13 Mar 2015

    Is it permissible to temporarily allow my friend and his wife to reside at my house in the following scenario?

    I am living in Jeddah with my family in an apartment with three rooms. One of the room is immediately after entering in the house (used as drawing…

    Fahad Abdul Wahab
  3. Ask Imaam10 Mar 2015

    May I convert my boyfriend for marriage?

    I have been friends with a non Muslim for 10 years. This friendship has turned into love. Being a Muslim women I know that Islam does not believe in…

    AbdulMannan Nizami
  4. Ask Imaam4 Mar 2015

    Few years back I had taken loan from friends for my mother’s Hajj. I have questions regarding

    Few years back I had taken loan from friends for my mother's Haj. I have questions regarding the same 1. I had not checked the source of wealth of…

    Ismail Desai
  5. Ask Imaam24 Feb 2015

    How may I stop my haram relationship?

    As salamu aleikum shykh,I was wondering if you can help by the grace of Allah swt. Iam a 19 years old teenage and I am having a haraam…

    AbdulMannan Nizami
  6. Ask Imaam15 Feb 2015

    Should I choose my future husband over my best friend?

    I have a dilemma. I have been a Muslim for 6 years now without telling my parents. I was able to do this as I live in a different country. Things…

    Bilal Mohammad
  7. Ask Imaam30 Dec 2014

    My younger sister has left home and has befriended a Kaffir, what do we do Islamically?

    I am a female with Turkish origin living in the Netherlands.Please excuse me, if i make mistakes in this mail since English isnt my mother tonque…

    Asim Patel
  8. Ask Imaam6 Dec 2014

    If I said I will not call my friend and then called him is it considered breaking an oath?

    I said I would not call a friend of mine till he brings back a book that belong to me but if we meet or he calls me, I will answer and we would have…

    Sohail ibn Arif
  9. Ask Imaam1 Dec 2014

    Should I go to a gathering to help my friends leave their bad habits?

    The place that I stay here have mixed gatherings I.e., d potlucks n dawaths n Iftar partys all kind if gatherings. With all ladies n gents together.…

    Bilal Mohammad
  10. Mufti Online19 Nov 2014

    Hugging a friend

    What is the ruling of hugging a friend in Islam? If I am a girl and hug my friend who is a girl too is it permissible? What about hugging your…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  11. Mufti Online21 Sep 2014

    Befriending kuffaar

    I have a best friend whom I hurt very badly because of a male friend. She feels hurt and we don't have the same relationship which we used to have…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  12. Ask Imaam17 Sep 2014

    Why was Prophet Ibrahim called “friend of Allah”?

    How old was Prophet Ibrahim PHUH? Why was he called the friend of Allah, is it true that he was called frind of Allah because he had no other…

    Immad Bin Arshad
  13. Ask Imaam3 Sep 2014

    Haram relationships

    I have come to learn about an incident and am not sure what to answer. An Muslim brither used to communicate with a lady who isn't directly related…

    Fahad Abdul Wahab
  14. Mufti Online23 Feb 2014

    Husband being over friendly with na mahram women

    Am I wrong to feel hurt and upset when my husband who claims to be innocent at home is over friendly when meeting female family members or friends…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  15. Ask Imaam9 Feb 2014

    Should I boycott my cousin or be friendly to him?

    I have a cousin who had illegtimate relationship, had kid and married the same lady. As a Muslim, I do despise his actions, but I still need to…

    Saeed Ncane
  16. Mufti Online6 Feb 2014

    Joking with friends and family

    Is joking with friends and family allowed? If yes please explain to us to what extent and with what type of relatives can we joke?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  17. Mufti Online16 Jan 2014

    Having a boy friend

    I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend. Today it came to my knowledge that black magic is being done on me. My parents are now thinking to consult…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  18. Ask Imaam12 Dec 2013

    Can I reply to a Salam from a Ghair Mahram? Can I make non-Muslim friends?

    1.is it permissible to reply the islamic greeting (asalamu alaikum )from a gair muharam? please explain. 2. iam studying in a university compising…

    Bilal Mohammad
  19. Mufti Online10 Dec 2013

    Making salaam to the opposite gender

    Is it permissible in Islam for a strange man and women to make salaam?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  20. Ask Imaam19 Oct 2013

    My cousin asked for my friends hand in marriage and I told the truth about him, did I commit a sin?

    I have been asked by a female friend about my cousin. they don't know each other personally but he wanted to ask her hand for marriage she asked me…

    Saleem Ibn Sajawal Khan
  21. Ask Imaam22 Sep 2013

    My mother doesnt trust me when im out with friends, how should i handle this?

    So I would like to get your opinion on an issue that I have with my mother. Whenever I am with my friends and get back abit late in the evening, she…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  22. Ask Imaam14 Sep 2013

    What duas and advice can I offer a friend suffering from severe depression?

    I have a close friend who experienced a traumatic event and they have subsequently, fallen into depression after years of suppressing their…

    Zameelur Rahman
  23. Mufti Online24 Aug 2013

    Anger over seeing wife's ex-boyfriend

    My wife and I are married for 6 months. She showed me a photo in a newspaper today of her ex-boyfriend who was her lover many years ago. I feel…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  24. Mufti Online21 May 2013

    I have a friend who is involved in a Haraam relationship

    I have a friend who is doing the Alima course. It is her second year which is about to end. She is studying the Deen of Allah Ta'ala but at the same…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  25. Ask Imaam18 Apr 2013

    Advice For A Friend's Marriage

    I want to take some advice for my friend. It’s about marriage his marriage.He is studying in a foreign country and there he came across a Muslimah…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  26. Ask Imaam14 Apr 2013

    I Assume That Someone Has Done Magic On My Friend. What Should We Do? (Urdu)

    Meri aik azeza han jo kafi dino sa bht pareshan han, onhon na mehsos kya h jasa on pa jado hwa ha onhon na manzil parhni shru ki to bemar rehna…

    Abdul Hannan Nizami
  27. Mufti Online23 Mar 2013

    My brother goes out at night with friends and comes home late

    My brother goes out at night with friends and comes home late, it happens quite often and he doesnt pay much attention to his wife or daughter,…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  28. Mufti Online23 Mar 2013

    Dreaming of my male friend

    I'm not married. I'm not dating (as non-muslims and muslims does these days) but I do have friends of the opposite gender. My friend who happens to…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  29. Mufti Online23 Mar 2013

    Dreaming of my male friend

    I recently discovered that my male friend hasn't been loyal as a friend and consequently, I have cut him out. For the last two evenings, I've…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  30. Ask Imaam20 Feb 2013

    Is it permissible to gather friends for recitation of the Quran in a new home?

    Salaam, I bought a new home and would like to invite few friends for reciting Quran in my home. Is it permissible to have Quran Khwani at home. Any…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai Saheb
  31. Ask Imaam13 Nov 2012

    Are Muslims allowed to visit their Hindu friends for Diwali and have sweets at their house?

    Are Muslims allowed to visit they hindu friends for diwali and have sweets at they house?

    Abdul Hannan Nizami
  32. Ask Imaam9 Mar 2012

    Ex-girlfriend has new affection, but still loved by old boyfriend. What should old friend do?

    I fell in love with a girl,who on start gave me hints,that she likes me,but later on ditched me say some or other reason,may be because she realized…

    Mawlana Saeed Ahmed Golaub
  33. Ask Imaam26 Jun 2011

    I would like to know whether I should travel without a mahram with my mum, my sister and my mum's friend?

    Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatoh, I would like to say Jazak Allah Khair for all your efforts, May Allah the most merciful grant us all…

    Muftī Ebrahim Desai
  34. Ask Imaam8 Jun 2011

    My parents dont get along and my dad is involved in a Haraam relationship

    I hope you are well and in the best of states. My Parents do not get a long at all. My Father does not care much about the happenings in the family…

    Sister Fadila
  35. Ask Imaam22 Nov 2010

    Can we pray for the guidance of a non-Muslim? Is it allowed to have a disbeliever as a friend?

    I like a Hindu lady. She is very much obedient to me. She always tries to follow almost all of my instructions without any argument. She respects…

    Muftī Asif Umar
  36. Ask Imaam4 Oct 2010

    Who is Waris Ali Shah. Someone told me he is a wali (saint). Please let me know so I can make arrangements to visit his qabr on my trip ...If a muslim friend has committed a crime (murder or fraud), should I (his friend) report him to the police?

    Muhtaram Mufti Saheb Who is Waris Ali Shah. Someone told me he is a wali (saint). Please let me know so I can make arrangements to visit his qabr on…

    Ml. Abduz Zaman
  37. Ask Imaam12 Aug 2010

    I am a divorced woman of 40 years old. My childhood friend wants to marry me

    salam, i am a woman in my 40s living in canada. when a childhood friend of mine from pakistan found out that i had been divorced, he told me that he…

    Ml. Abdur Rahman Shareef
  38. Ask Imaam20 Jul 2010

    I want to ask whether it is OK to use facebook as there are a lot of anti-Islamic pages and groups on it? Some of my friends still use facebook even after that event name

    Aslam o' Alaikum Respected Mufti, I want to ask whether it is OK to use facebook as there are a lot of anti-Islamic pages and groups on it? Some of…

    Faisal bin Abdul Hamid
  39. Ask Imaam13 Jul 2010

    My question is my friend taken doner egg because she cant produce her own egg she taking this decision because she dont wants to lose her husband if her husband marry other woman she told she end her life now what islam says about this

    my question is my friend taken doner egg because she cant produce her own egg she taking this decision because she dont wants to lose her husband if…

    Ml. Ebrahim Desai
  40. Ask Imaam21 Jun 2010

    i use a networking site to remain in touch with my old friends and for my business.My question is whether it is permissible for me to insert a photo of me as a profile picture?

    i use a networking site to remain in touch with my old friends and for my business.My question is whether it is permissible for me to insert a photo…

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