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Friendship & Gender Interaction
263 fatawa from 7 South African Darul Iftas on Friendship & Gender Interaction, part of Social, Media & Ethics. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
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Friendship & Gender Interaction fatawa — page 6 of 7
- Ask Imaam16 May 2003
Nasheeds? A friend of mine told me that it is bid'at to listen to nasheeds as it cannot be linked back to any hadiths
A friend of mine told me that it is bid'at to listen to nasheeds as it cannot be linked back to any hadiths, be found in the Quran or in any of the…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam15 May 2003
What are the affects of porn? I am deeply distressed when I look at my friends around me watching pornographic images.
I am 16 years old & I am deeply distressed when I look at my friends around me watching pornographic images.I think if they know the consequences of…
2SOCIAL DEPT - Ask Imaam9 May 2003
Is it wrong to be friends with guys? Also is it wrong to talk to guys? If so can you please explain..... thank you very much....
It is rather unfortunate that sin and evil has become so rife nowadays that people don't even regard sin as sin anymore and how true are the words…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam24 Apr 2003
My friend told me that if there is a islamic battle and after winning that battle if muslims capturesome women they are free to do whatever they want to do with them...
then they are free to do whatever they want to do with them. i.e have sex without marriage or marry them or kill them or free them or do what ever…
Mufti Muhammad Ashraf - Ask Imaam17 Apr 2003
3. My friend wants to know if he can Write about non-fiction. he wants to use the concepts of Islam in it and he wants to know if he should go into that field.
1. Can you please tell if I should go for forty days or four months for Tableekh, if I feel that my family needs Dawat more than any one else. My…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam6 Apr 2003
1-Ways to get up in fajr,2-can we touch and read Quran without wudu.3-My father,brothers and friends oppose me on keeping beard.
1-How can i get up in fajr prayer because mostly my father beat me but i dont get up.What to do tell me any dua for this.2-Can we touch/read Quran…
Mufti Muhammad Kadwa - Ask Imaam4 Mar 2003
i have an question some of my friends in my school making a bad habit... thats called (maany or secret habit) which they get their sperms out. is it haram or halal?
i am very interested by this site. i have an question some of my friends in my school making a bad habit thats called ( maany or secret habit )…
Mufti Muhammad Kadwa - Ask Imaam3 Mar 2003
My father in law drinks wine. Alot of it sometimes. He invites other Muslim friends over and they all drink together. How can we stop him...?
My father in law drinks wine. Alot of it sometimes. He invites other Muslim friends over and they all drink together (Astaqfur?Allah). My husband,…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam24 Feb 2003
1)My friend borrowed some money from me.While he returns,if he gives money earned by him in haram ways, Can i take that money? 2-Can female use toilet tissues instead of water after urination.
(1)My friend borrowed some money from me.While he returns,if he gives haram money(earned by him in haram ways) to me, Can i take that money?will it…
for: Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam19 Feb 2003
a friend of mine has not offered salat for past 5 years,either knowingly or due to negligence.how should he repent? any special duaa?if he performs qadhaa salat after completion of education,is it ok?
a friend of mine has not offered salat for past 5 years,either knowingly or due to negligence. now,after spending 40 days in tabligh jamaat,he says…
for: Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam4 Feb 2003
Should she have an abortion? a friend of mine has got his girlfriend (a non Muslim) pregnant, the girl's parents want an abortion, the boy does not and the girl is confused...
a friend of mine has got his girlfriend (a non Muslim) pregnant, the girl's parents want an abortion, the boy does not and the girl is confused, the…
Mufti Muhammad Kadwa - Ask Imaam6 Jan 2003
What does it mean when you dream of a friend's death or a family member's death?
The dream of death is a reminder of death. One should always be conscious of death as that serves to keep one straight and upright in Deen. and…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam11 Nov 2002
Gifts from a person whose income is haram... One of my friend works for bank (involved in the interested based business),
One of my friend works for bank (involved in the interested based business), what should i do if that person send me a gift (like food item etc). Is…
- Ask Imaam27 Oct 2002
My atheist friends ask me that if Adam and Eve were the first people on earth, and their sons were Able and Cane, who did they marry and how did their offspring come about?
When Allah Ta?ala sent Aadam and Hawa (Alayhis salaam) to the earth, the progeny of man began. Haawa (Alayhis salaam) became pregnant twice with…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam25 Oct 2002
I want to spent time in Medina in Ramadan with my family. My friend is asking me to go in Jamath and leave my family at home.
My friend will look after them and he will stay with his wife at my home (presently I am in Saudi). Is it allowed to do so from shariath point of…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam2 Oct 2002
I have some muslim friends. they do not practice Islam. advise me what I should do about being staying friends with them and how should I act or advice them?
I have some muslim friends. Although they do not practice Islam. For examples, some of them eat food that is not halal and some have friends that…
Mufti Muhammad Kadwa - Ask Imaam20 Sep 2002
Me and my friend bought a book by both of us contributing half of the money. after some days we found out he is a thief, we broke all ties with him. Please advise me what to do with the book
However after some days when me and my friends found out that he is a theif we broke all ties with him. Please advise me what to do with the…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam10 Sep 2002
I want to spent time in Medina in Ramadan. My friend is asking to go in Jamath and leave family at home and he will look after them and he will keep his wife at my home (presently I am in Saudi).
Is it allowed to do so from shariath point of view?(inviting to islam)
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam6 Sep 2002
I read this on a site can you please clarify this or explain? Is it true? 'You have not recognized the friend of Allah, Ali Ibne Abi Taleb (AS) as he deserved and you have given in to the enemy ...'
?More regretful than that man is one who has amassed a huge wealth with labor but he has ruined it with alms and charitable deeds, has spent his…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam4 Sep 2002
I have a friend (Muslim) but she is not that religious. I am confused if I should stay friends with her forever because this is just worldly friendship.
We have been friend for a few years now and that?s why I really love her. I didn't really practice Islam when I made friends with her but…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam27 Aug 2002
One of my friends recently admitted that he is homosexual. He says Allah is unjust. What should I advise him?
Basically he has been a good friend of mine and his revelation has completely shocked me! I do not know what to tell him...its difficult for me. I…
- Ask Imaam22 Aug 2002
I am about to move into a new house, Inshallah. My friends suggested to first put a Qur’an in there and call Azan. Should I do this?
Also please make Du?aa that Allah make this house to be a source of peace, security, and tranquillity for me and my family.
- Ask Imaam17 Aug 2002
Me & boyfriend planning to get married, he’s converted to islam just recently and still thinking about doing circumcision. What I want to know is whether we’re going to do zinah after we get married?
We understand from your statement that you want to know if intercourse while being uncircumcised is Zina. Definitely not. If you have made Nikah,…
Moulana Imraan Vawda - Ask Imaam9 Aug 2002
In educating children,I always believed to use the gentle approach as there are lots of nas urging muslims to be gentle(rafiqa).However a friend of mine disagree.He says harsh approach is good also
In educating children,I always believed to use the gentle approach as there are lots of nas urging muslims to be gentle(rafiqa).However a friend of…
Moulana Imraan Vawda - Ask Imaam7 Aug 2002
I have been in contact with a boy through emails only sometimes for school work. I did Istikhara about whether to be friends with him or not because he is a boy.
I have been in contact with a boy through emails only sometimes for school work. I did Istikhara about whether to be friends with him or not because…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam6 Jul 2002
Based on a friend’s suggestion, I recited Surah Yaseen 41 times together with my spouse keeping a wish (Haajath) in focus, and made Du’aa to Allah s.w.t. to grant it. Is this in line with Shariah?
Is this act recommended in Islam or did I not do the right thing? Is this an innovation (Bid?a) in anyway?
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam2 Jul 2002
dream me and my ex-boyfriend all of sudden hugged each other and my ex-boyfriend started reciting Surat Fatiha (over & over again)
I had this dream just a month ago. And in that dream me and my ex-boyfriend all of sudden hugged each other and my ex-boyfriend started reciting…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam23 May 2002
There has been an instance when a friend of mine made a very insulting joke about Allah.I did not realize the implication and started laughing .How should I repent?
As Salaam Aalekum There has been an instance when a friend of mine made a very insulting joke about Allah.I did not realize the implication and…
Mufti Muhammad Kadwa - Ask Imaam20 May 2002
I have a really good friend to whom when I meet, we end up watching movies. He prays 5 times, is good but doesn't believe in giving up movies and similar desires. Can you give a suggestion.
I have a really good friend to whom when I meet, we end up watching movies. Other friends are ok. I can refuse to watch movies with them but this…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam13 May 2002
Please interpret these 3 dreams; a) we are talking about somethin when i say that is why Moosa (a.s) is nearest to us.my friend says wat r u sayin
Dream # 1 my friend and i are in 2 seperate balconies which are very near to each other.we are talking about somethin when i say that is why Moosa…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam9 May 2002
My friend thinks it is ok to have a fiancé and go out on dates with him - pls give answer that talks about all of the above proving wrong
My friend thinks it is ok to have a fiancé and go out on dates with him. She says that if you get married without knowing him you?ll have to live…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam30 Apr 2002
Interpretation of a dream - Am I being asked to revive friendhip with her again?
I'm a sunni Muslim from Pakistan and I know an Iranian non-religious woman as a friend (we're in the same professional field.She was not my…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam24 Apr 2002
My friend who is an english convert,has dark patches on her face and was wondering if it is ok to use taning lotion,would wudu/ghusal be valid if used?
No, it is not necessary. and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best Moulana Imraan Vawda FATWA DEPT. CHECKED AND APPROVED CORRECT: Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Moulana Imraan Vawda - Ask Imaam24 Mar 2002
Assalamoalaikum Respected Mufti Sahab! Very recently I was discussing with my friends that what flexibility does Islam offers in fulfilling Allah’s orders.
It was believed that Islam offers very strict rules, which nowadays are impossible or at least very difficult to follow. I have heard from speeches…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam11 Mar 2002
If a muslim man lives with his girlfriend as man and wife but does not marry her, how is this regarded in Islam.
Since Nikah has not been conducted, they are living in sin. This is Zina (fornication) which has been vehemently abhorred by the Qur'aan. A simple…
Mufti Muhammad Kadwa - Ask Imaam7 Mar 2002
Is it legal for Muslim married or non-married women to talk or have a non-Muslim male friend?
Allah Ta'ala says in the noble Qur'aan, 'O, you who believe, do not befriend my enemies .' (Surah 60:1) It is Haraam for any female to unnecessarily…
for: Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam31 Jan 2002
Is Having a boy-friend/girl-friend haraam?
Allah Ta'ala says, 'Do not go even close to Zina (adultery)'. Intermingling of sexes is Haraam and it is not permissible for a male to have a female…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam20 Dec 2001
Is it ok to have a girlfriend who I like?
Is it ok to have a girlfriend who I like?
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam12 Dec 2001
If we see a religious dream, does it mean its a true dream? Do only friends of Allah see religious dreams? I had the following dream;
There was a gathering of mostly males, and a few females, we were all sitting doing dhikr of Allah loudly, and waiting for a special sheikh to come,…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam11 Dec 2001
Today is Thanksgiving Thursday (4th Thus. in Nov.) in USA, when Americans feast on Turkeys. Can we Muslims participate in it, by wishing and offering a Turkey to our non-Muslim friends? (see details)
More information on this historic event is available at: http://www.usis.usemb.se/Holidays/celebrate/thanksgi.html ? In order to please my friend or…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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