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What are a husband's rights over his wife?

26 fatawa in the archive answer questions on this, from 4 South African Darul Iftas (Mufti Online, AskImam, Jamiat KZN, Ibn Masood). Below, each Darul Ifta’s answer is quoted word for word from the opening of one of its fatawa.

Based on the fatawa linked below. Please read the sources and double-check with a Darul Ifta for your situation.

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What the Darul Iftas say

“It is compulsory upon the wife to obey the husband. Hence, if the husband does not give her permission to travel for umrah with her parents and family, it will not be permissible for her to travel.”

Mufti Online — Obeying the Husband · 18 Aug 2013

“It is the right of the husband that the wife obeys him in every permissible act which he commands her to carry out, and in fact it is Waajib for her to obey him if he commands her to carry out an action.”

Ibn Masood — Obeying the husband in all permissible matters · 26 May 2022

“There are two issues in your query. A) The wife working. B) The right over the income of the wife. In principle, it is not permissible for a woman to work unnecessarily. A wife ought to be maintained and supported by the husband.”

AskImam — Should woman obey her husband with regards to her own money? · 13 Sep 2018

“Islam has emphasized on the wife to be obedient to the husband and on the husband to treat the wife with kindness, compassion and justice. Both components are necessary in a successful marriage and if both husband and wife play their proper roles in the marriage, the objectives of marriage will be fulfilled.”

Jamiat KZN — Balancing the rights of husband and parents? · 28 Mar 2013

Quotes are the opening words of each answer as published; the full answer, its conditions and references are on the fatwa page. Answers depend on the exact details of each question.

Read the fatawa

  1. Is it the Wife’s Responsibility to Cook? Jamiat KZN · 28 May 2024
  2. Obeying the husband in all permissible matters Ibn Masood · 26 May 2022
  3. The rights of the husband and wife Mufti Online · 29 Aug 2020
  4. Should woman obey her husband with regards to her own money? AskImam · 13 Sep 2018
  5. Balancing the rights of husband and parents? Jamiat KZN · 28 Mar 2013
  6. Obeying the husband Mufti Online · 3 May 2017
  7. Doing laundry on Friday, obeying husband’s command to not due laundry in Friday AskImam · 25 Jan 2018
  8. Why Must I Obey My Husband? Jamiat KZN · 23 Jan 2018
  9. False statements regarding husbands rights Mufti Online · 21 Feb 2017
  10. Is it the wife’s responsibility to cook? AskImam · 1 Mar 2016
  11. Obeying the Husband Mufti Online · 18 Aug 2013
  12. Husbands rights over his wife AskImam · 5 Jun 2008
  13. Wife's obligation towards her husband is greater than her parents and siblings Mufti Online · 6 Aug 2022
  14. haveI read a lot on the rights of a husband and wife towards each other, but I want to know .. AskImam · 6 Dec 2006
  15. Staying unmarried due to being unable to fulfill one's wife's duties Mufti Online · 21 Feb 2019

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