Marriage · Subtopic
Marital Problems & Counselling
382 fatawa from 4 South African Darul Iftas on Marital Problems & Counselling, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Marital Problems & Counselling fatawa — page 5 of 10
- Mufti Online29 Apr 2017
Husband refusing to have a child
I am 33 years old and have been married for 11 years, no children. My husband refuses to start a family with me saying, I can't force him to have a…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online26 Apr 2017
Husband not fulfilling the rights of his wife by living in another city
I have a few questions regarding my married life 1. If a wife cant do anything without the permission of her husband then whats the difference…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online11 Apr 2017
How should a wife deal with her husband who watches porn?
I have seen many women complain on social platforms that their husbands watch porn and I've seen people comment that they should divorce or try and…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online11 Apr 2017
Husband cheating with sister-in-law
If my husband and sister in law had a najaiz relationship when we were downstairs and he was sleeping. (Maybe) She came in the room and stayed for…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online11 Apr 2017
Marital problems
I would like your advice, other than interpretation of dreams, regarding my first wife. It is understandable the shock she had about hearing about…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online6 Apr 2017
Jealous husband
My husband keeps accusing me of looking at other men and not to cause him shame in the community. He doesn't like me going out and doesn't trust me…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online30 Mar 2017
Husband having an affair with his wife's niece
My husband, 36, has been having an affair with my niece, 20, for the past few years. Everytime I confronted him he denied it and twists it around…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online23 Mar 2017
Husband spending on parents and siblings
My husband lives abroad and spends money on his parents and siblings. He says that he can't afford my visa and tickets. Is it my right to live with…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online22 Mar 2017
In-laws taking away daughter in-law's jewellery and refusing to pay her mahr
Is it right for an ex husband and his family to keep all the wifes jewelleries and refused to pay her maher? Last year his parents went for hajj but…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online21 Mar 2017
Parents forcing one to divorce one's wife
I am a male 36 years old. I was first married to my cousin 9 years ago and currently having 2 kids with her, 8 and 6 years old. Few months back I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online16 Mar 2017Arabic
الخيانة من الزوجة
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله . سيدي العزيز . أنا رجل قد تعرضت للخيانة من زوجتي و صديقي و إكتشفت ذلك مؤخراً بعد أن رأيت صور لها على الكمبيوتر الخاص به و…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online9 Mar 2017
Winning the heart of the husband
I need help with a certain issue. I got married about 7 months ago. Recently i had this doubt on my husband related to his friend who is a female.…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online9 Mar 2017
Consulting one's elders with regard to marriage
I like a person from my paternal family and I want to marry him. He is the son of my father's own sister. My parents are dead against this and they…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Mar 2017
Wife desirous of moving near her sister due to loneliness
We live in one area.. I have grown up and stayed all my life there.. My parents are nearby.. My friends.. Masjid where I offer my salats.. My wife…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online7 Mar 2017
Husband involved in a haraam relationship
I have an issue that I am having a really hard time dealing with. When I was engaged to my fiancé he told me that he is getting really close to this…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online2 Mar 2017
Taking a second wife
My question is that I want to do 2nd Marriage so is it necessary for me to take the permission from my first wife and in case if my first wife don't…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online25 Feb 2017
Husband suffering from schizophrenia
I am married for 18 years and have two children aged 16 and 14. My husband was a wonderful jolly loving person. He faced many business stresses and…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online25 Feb 2017
Husband doesn't want to have a child
I want to have a baby and my husband does not want. We are both in our 40s and he says he is too old. I have tried talking to him but he doesn't…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online23 Feb 2017
Separating from an unfaithful wife
I am married for 15 years with three children, I love my wife but she is very difficult. She has slowly changed from committed women to complete…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Feb 2017
Fantasizing about a married man
I am 36 yrs old married with 2 kids and suddenly started thinking about other man who is also married. I am praying to Allah day and night that I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online12 Feb 2017
Husbands parents ill treating the daughter in-law
I am married for one year. My husband is in Oman . I am with his father and mother. I have some problems from both. They are not allowing me to go…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online11 Feb 2017
Husband abusing his wife
My husband often verbally abuses me and I have been enduring it for the past 1 year 6 months. I told his parents and they even advised him yet there…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online9 Feb 2017
Husband shirking in his responsibilities
I have been married for 16 years to my husband and we have 3 children he now says he wants a talaaq. I was not aware that we had any problems and I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Feb 2017Roman Urdu
Be wafa showhar
Meri shaadi ko 7yrs ho gaye hai Alhumdulillah do bachhe hai Mere shauhar ne mujhse love marriage kiye the leki shadi ke teen saal baad se unka extra…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Feb 2017
Wife refusing to have another child
I am living and working in Denmark. I am having a problem with my wife regarding third child. I hereby want to explain you my problem in details.…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online7 Feb 2017
Marital problems
I was married before and have three kids from a previous nikaah. I am now married for 7 months and have no kids. I do all the house work, cook,…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online4 Feb 2017
Wife refusing to have intercourse
Please advise. My wife does not want to have intercourse with me. I find my self wanting to stimulate myself using her shoe, can I do this? I am…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online1 Feb 2017
Applying for faskh
My husband has issued his first wife with three talaaqs years ago but still continued living with her as a married couple. When we got married last…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online1 Feb 2017
Husband complaining to his parents about his wife
Is it allowed in Islam for a husband to complain about his wife to his parents who in turn bad mouths his wife as well instead of giving him good…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Jan 2017
Marital problems
I am a 29 years old married male, married against my will (parents pressure) since last 3 years and suffering from depression since last 3 years…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Jan 2017
Husband refusing to have children
I'm Married for the last one and a half year. My husband doesn't want a child for the next couple of years. He loves me a lot. But only this thing…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Jan 2017
Husband referring to the wife as partner
I just wanted to let you know that me and my husband both are British citizen. We are married and registered by the Islamic law,and completed our…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Jan 2017
Husband being impotent
I am a married woman. My husband is impotent. What can I do to feed my sexual needs apart from fasting?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Jan 2017
Husband taking care of his sister
I am in a difficult situation and need some help. I have been married for 6 months. My father in law gifted a house to my husband which we have been…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online26 Jan 2017
Husband communicating with his ex-wife
I am very stressed just wanted to know mufti. You the only person I know who can tell me what is right and what is wrong Islamicly. My husband is…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online25 Dec 2016
Pleasing one's husband
I just want advice regarding my husband. Don't know what to do. When I go out with him even when I smile at a cousin brother, he gets annoyed and…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online18 Dec 2016
Husband refusing to perform Salaah
I have been married for a year and a half now. The problem is my husband refuses to pray. He used to pray all his five prayers at the beginning, but…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online18 Dec 2016
Husband telling the wife after she performs Salaah "stop wasting time"
Myself and my husband were leaving to go on a trip. I told my husband I'm going to perform salaah before we leave and went. He after about 10…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Dec 2016
Marital problems
Because my husband totally owns the house we live in for 34 years, does that mean according to Islam that I cannot invite my son and his family from…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Dec 2016
Husband involved in a haraam relationship
I need some advice on my marriage problem. After four months of my marriage my husband confessed to me that he doesn't love me at all and is in love…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
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