Marriage · Subtopic
Marital Problems & Counselling
382 fatawa from 4 South African Darul Iftas on Marital Problems & Counselling, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Marital Problems & Counselling fatawa — page 6 of 10
- Mufti Online11 Dec 2016
Marital problems
Can a man have two wives if he is unable to support them? My husband has another wife. Both he and the other wife are unemployed and not earning any…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online11 Dec 2016
Requesting the husband for separate accommodation
I would like to ask Mufti Saheb's opinion in regards to living with my in laws. I'm currently living at my husbands parents house and have been for…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Dec 2016
Wife involved in a haraam relationship
Two years ago I got engaged to a girl and then I told her that if you want to live with me, you have to control yourself and don't do anything which…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online5 Dec 2016
Marital problems
I am so stressed. I want a divorce from my husband but he is not agreeing. We had a secret Nikaah nobody knows about it till now. Now that the…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online29 Nov 2016
Spending time with one's wife
I wanted to ask something about relationship issues. My husband is very strictly religious and he reads lots of Islamic books through the whole day…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online13 Nov 2016
Marital problems
I have a question regarding divorce. Me and my wife have had a lot of problems. And we end up living separated. But I said once that I give her…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online7 Nov 2016
Experiencing difficulty in finding a suitable spouse
I am looking to get married. But in today's society it seems impossible to find a girl who isn't involved in social media and shameless behaviour…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online5 Nov 2016
Husband involved in a haraam relationship
My question to you is what can I do to help myself? My husband is having an extramarital affair. He doesn't choose to stop. I've asked him many…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online3 Nov 2016
Making dua to marry a married man
According to Islam, can a woman pray to Allah to marry a specific person? Is it prohibited to want to marry a married man in Islam? Is it a sin to…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online2 Nov 2016
Is it necessary for the husband to tell the wife "I love you"?
A wife wants a husband to let her know that he loves her. But the husband says that you can feel my love in my actions,there's no need to say it in…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Oct 2016Roman Urdu
Khaawind ke jhagre me ne parna
Mere shaadi ko 20 saal ho gaye 2 bachhe hain. Hum deendar hain mere shohar tagleegh me bahut saal se hain, fazail-e-amaal ki taaleem bhi ghar me…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online29 Oct 2016
Husband flirting with women
I have been married for eight years with no children. My husband is flirting with women on the phone. He promises them marriage, he gives them…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN25 Oct 2016
Teenage Crushes
Being a girl, is it Haraam to have crushes on boys or to like them?
- Mufti Online24 Oct 2016
Asking the husband for divorce if he takes a second wife
My question is about second marriage. I have very good relation with my husband and his family. My husband loves me and our two daughters. My…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online16 Oct 2016
Husband's brother living with the couple
My brother lives with me but my wife wants to separate him. Although he is earning good enough for his needs but I don't want this. I love my…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN27 Sep 2016
Duas to Increase Love between Spouses
Duas to Increase Love between Spouses?
Muadh Chati - Mufti Online5 Sep 2016
Husband going for holidays with his friends
Is it ok for a husband to go on numerous holidays with his friends leaving his family behind? His argument is he provides and takes family too.
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online4 Sep 2016
Husband leaving his wife alone with his brother
My qustion is about my brother inlaw: He is 23 years old and I am 27. My husband works 7 days a week and he comes home late night. On Sundays and in…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Ask Imaam29 Aug 2016
My wife verbally and physically abuses me and makes dua against me. What should I do?
Dear Shuyookh. I appreciate that you receive a large number of queries. HOWEVER I am asking this question for approximately the 3rd or 4th time with…
Mufti Sohail ibn Arif - Mufti Online25 Aug 2016
The responsibility of looking after the children in nikaah
Whom does islam gives the first right to the child if the parents have a fight, the mother or the father? If the mother is ill does that gives a…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Aug 2016
Fulfilling the obligation one owes towards one's mother and wife
I am the only child of my mother, married with two kids alhamdulillah. But recently things are not going well for me. I'm not in a position to…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online18 Aug 2016
Husband allowing his brother the use of his bathroom
We live with my in-laws. While I was away this weekend my husband let his 25 year old brother use our personal bathroom. There are 6 other bathrooms…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Aug 2016Roman Urdu
Biwi ki taraf se pareshaani
Mein aik shadi shuda banda hoon. Meri shaadi ko das saal hoye hein aur woh bhe love marraige hey. Saat saal pehley doosri larki meri life mein aai…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Aug 2016
Fear to speak to one's parents regarding nikaah
I am 25 (male) from a well-off family and presently pursuing PhD in earth sciences with a decent fellowship but you know the environment here at the…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online10 Aug 2016
Husband speaking to his cousins
If my husband speaks to his female cousins or friends just to keep a good relation and friendly chat but I don't like it and I don't like such…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Aug 2016Roman Urdu
Showhar dowsre mulk chale gaye
Meri shadi ko 5 saal ho jaye. Shadi k 2nd month me husband bahar country chala gia or 5 saal me Sirf aik baar 4 maheny k lye aya. Me chahti hun k wo…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online7 Aug 2016
Marital problems
I have been having great problems with my wife the last few years. She separated herself from me because of her mother telling her and the last few…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online6 Aug 2016Roman Urdu
Showhar dusri shadi karna chahte hai
Mufti saheb mere shaadi ko no saal hua. Mujhe teen bachche hai mere sauhar chat par dusri ladki log se bat karte hai wo kehte hai ki wo dusri shadi…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online6 Aug 2016
Both families being happy with the nikaah
I like one girl. I met her three months back. I did istikhara at the starting and now after three months my parents went to there place and after…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online30 Jul 2016Roman Urdu
Nikaah me pareshaani
Main bohat saloon say iss zahni kashmakash main hun kuch samaj nahi aata yeh hamari dosri shadi hai husband meray kuch cheezoon main tu theek hain…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Jul 2016
Husband preventing the wife from visiting her relatives
If a husband orders his wife not go to some of her relatives and she goes without the husband's permission, is she living in sin?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Jul 2016
Trying to convince a non-Muslim to accept Islam in order to marry her
I want to marry a non-Muslim but I have been trying to convince her to believe in God. She says she will believe in him a bit, also she wears…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online27 Jul 2016
Wife masturbating the husband
Is it permissible to masterbate if one's spouse is unable to fulfil the others needs. My wife and I have been married for 10 years now, and in the…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online19 Jul 2016
Obeying one's parents in matters of nikaah
There is a man who is in love with me but he is married with 3 kids. He does not want to tell his wife about us because he says it will be problem.…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online19 Jul 2016
Obeying one's parents in matters of nikaah
I come from a Gujrati speaking family. I wish to marry a Urdu boy. This displeases my parents as they only want a Gujrati boy for me. There only…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Jul 2016Roman Urdu
Faskh-e-nikaah
Mera mufti sahib se ye sawal ha ke ager mard kisi bhi sorat talaq nahi deta na he khula pe razi hota ha to orat kya kary?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Jamiat KZN31 May 2016
Is marital intimacy not to be enjoyed?
Should i be appreciating and thankful to my husband every time he helps me knowing full well that it is his duty? It is my belief that intercourse…
- Mufti Online17 May 2016
Marital problems
I am my husbands second wife and married to him since three years. His first wife fights with him now and then as he married me. She threatens him…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 May 2016
Listening to one's parents
I am in love with a girl and want to marry her. I told my parents to ask for her hand but they are not agreeing as they have heard that the girl…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online8 May 2016
Biwi dowsre lowgo ke saat zina me mubtala hona
Agar biwi nikaah me hai aur biwi dusre admiyo se hum bistari kare to kya ushe talaak dena chahiye ya shariyat me kuch aisa mujhe plzz mujhe batye.
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
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